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Sooooo Move Update!!

Master and I spent the week taking each other’s measurements. We’ve determined that he is the perfect height, hehehe which would’ve been any height lol….anyway apparently I come up to just under his chin!!! Hehehe I love it.

Every couple of weeks I clean house and donate and throw stuff out. I have a ton of shit and downsizing to make the move doesn’t seem so overwhelming with these flushes. I’ve decided in his care packages I am going to start sending stuff. It will make it easier to make the move. This one will have a surprise for him, a skirt or two and probably some sweats idk yet lol.

I love you Master!

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dominantstateofmind:

Dominants are not gods (in case you haven’t been convinced yet)
A friend asked me recently to write  a few thoughts about what it means to be a Dominant man.   I will start by affirming that a Dominant of any stripe is not a “god”.  We are men.   It’s important to emphasize that both for those men who call themselves Dominant and think the title confers godlike status, and for submissive women looking for something more than human.  I have had occasion to meet several submissive women whom I think are looking for a “god”:  something or someone so all powerful that all their worries are abolished forever- or at least for a month.  I can assure you not even God in a bed and breakfast has pulled that kind of magic off.   The best of Dominants may bring peace of mind to a submissive for a period of time, but only that.  Life is capricious and there are pimples and cancers and burnt casseroles and bills and fucking good times and nightmares.  Dom’s are not capable of managing all of that perfectly or by themselves and are a bit deluded if they try.   Even Dominant men have to face the harsh cold morning water of life.   Even the studliest (new word, Dominants can create new words – look it up)  … even the studliest of us experience shrinkage in certain temperatures.  Still, in the darkness of life, when all seems scary, it is the Dom that makes sure that the hall light is left on to create hope in night.  It is the Dom who stands outside her door to keep watch against her inner demons.
       Dominants are not gods: we are mortal – but we are leaders.  We are men of courage and character and perseverance.  We are those who in a time of moral ambiguity and cowardice still manage to take a stand, commit to being gentleman, and have a code of integrity.  We look out for the poor and weak and young, and we do not tolerate injustice. We are humble students but also powerful teachers.  We give our lives to protect the women we love.   We are capable of the most unforgettable romance you could imagine, but we also fart at the absolute worst moments.   We can eat pineapple for a week and still taste like asparagus when she finally decides to swallow.   We can take a woman to the heights of ecstasy on Friday night, and wonder why our marathon dicks Saturday suddenly became sprinters on Sunday.  Our tongues, ladies, do eventually tire.  We are the best of men, often with more power than the average Joe, but we are, after all just men.  Men who own their mistakes, accept their responsibility, and constantly strive to improve – but men.   To think more of ourselves is to lack integrity. To expect a man to be a god is to expect too much.  A Dominant with a proper sense of confidence and strength can also be humble, make a mistake, and laugh at himself.   A submissive gives a holy gift if she can laugh along with him and not at him.  D/s is a deep, intense journey, but it is after all a journey between a woman and a man.  And that, done well, is enough.   Love well, play safe.  D/sOM
(cc. words D/sOM, gratitude to unknown photographer)


This is my Master. It took me a while to realize he can make mistakes as I do but we are stronger for it. 😄

dominantstateofmind:

Dominants are not gods (in case you haven’t been convinced yet)

A friend asked me recently to write  a few thoughts about what it means to be a Dominant man.   I will start by affirming that a Dominant of any stripe is not a “god”.  We are men.   It’s important to emphasize that both for those men who call themselves Dominant and think the title confers godlike status, and for submissive women looking for something more than human.  I have had occasion to meet several submissive women whom I think are looking for a “god”:  something or someone so all powerful that all their worries are abolished forever- or at least for a month.  I can assure you not even God in a bed and breakfast has pulled that kind of magic off.   The best of Dominants may bring peace of mind to a submissive for a period of time, but only that.  Life is capricious and there are pimples and cancers and burnt casseroles and bills and fucking good times and nightmares.  Dom’s are not capable of managing all of that perfectly or by themselves and are a bit deluded if they try.   Even Dominant men have to face the harsh cold morning water of life.   Even the studliest (new word, Dominants can create new words – look it up)  … even the studliest of us experience shrinkage in certain temperatures.  Still, in the darkness of life, when all seems scary, it is the Dom that makes sure that the hall light is left on to create hope in night.  It is the Dom who stands outside her door to keep watch against her inner demons.

       Dominants are not gods: we are mortal – but we are leaders.  We are men of courage and character and perseverance.  We are those who in a time of moral ambiguity and cowardice still manage to take a stand, commit to being gentleman, and have a code of integrity.  We look out for the poor and weak and young, and we do not tolerate injustice. We are humble students but also powerful teachers.  We give our lives to protect the women we love.   We are capable of the most unforgettable romance you could imagine, but we also fart at the absolute worst moments.   We can eat pineapple for a week and still taste like asparagus when she finally decides to swallow.   We can take a woman to the heights of ecstasy on Friday night, and wonder why our marathon dicks Saturday suddenly became sprinters on Sunday.  Our tongues, ladies, do eventually tire.  We are the best of men, often with more power than the average Joe, but we are, after all just men.  Men who own their mistakes, accept their responsibility, and constantly strive to improve – but men.   To think more of ourselves is to lack integrity. To expect a man to be a god is to expect too much.  A Dominant with a proper sense of confidence and strength can also be humble, make a mistake, and laugh at himself.   A submissive gives a holy gift if she can laugh along with him and not at him.  D/s is a deep, intense journey, but it is after all a journey between a woman and a man.  And that, done well, is enough.   Love well, play safe.  D/sOM

(cc. words D/sOM, gratitude to unknown photographer)

This is my Master. It took me a while to realize he can make mistakes as I do but we are stronger for it. 😄